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50 Christmas messages your LDR boyfriend dreams of receiving

Christmas Message for Long Distance Relationship: He is waiting, he is looking forward to it.

Your partner.

He’s like a kid on his birthday, when he sees the pile of presents waiting to be opened. Every two minutes he unlocks his phone to see your notification and find out what beautiful message of love you sent him on New Year’s Eve.

You’ve never let him down in that respect. At every event, at every victory, you were there. To send him a message that made him forget for a few moments all the problems linked to the distance.

He quickly got used to your small but romantic attentions. He loves to answer people who ask him what you sent him for Christmas. He is proud of it, and you can see it in his eyes.

The tragedy is that you have to surprise him every time.

A simple « Merry Christmas » is no longer enough.
If your message is the same as his friends, what’s the point of struggling to have a fulfilling and unique long distance relationship?

a man in a long distance relationship waits impatiently for the Christmas message from his LDR girlfriend

So how to be original? How to stand out, and especially not to disappoint?

Today, I’m putting an end to that problem.

You’ll discover 50 examples of LDR Christmas messages you can send.
Whether it’s your first Christmas or your 6th, the Christmas message will never be a problem for you again.

Let’s get started.

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Christmas Messages for Long Distance Relationship

Because the distance is even harder to manage in the moments when everyone gathers.
If this year you have to celebrate on your own, here are some long distance relationship christmas messages to send to your partner.

a woman in a long distance relationship sends a Christmas message to her LDR boyfriend

1) My dearest [First Name]. I hope Santa will be generous to you!
I have asked him to fulfill my greatest dream: to be reunited as soon as possible.
I love you…

2) Hi [First name], I am sending you this little message to wish you the most wonderful Christmas.
I know that this year has not been the easiest because of the border closures, but every day that passes brings us a little closer.
Enjoy your family, and I’ll see you soon.

3) This year has been so special and I was looking forward to celebrating Christmas with you.
Unfortunately, we won’t be able to spend Christmas together. So with these few words I wish you a very merry Christmas.
I hope that we will be able to meet again very soon.

Maybe we will be able to talk about our respective Christmases and look at the pictures, if we don’t get to share this moment together.

Merry Christmas to you.
Out of sight but never out of mind.
I love you

4) Outside it’s cold and you are far from me, but in my heart you are close and it bubbles with love for you.
It was time for Christmas to come… So that I share with you the best wishes for this incredible holiday to wish you a new year full of happiness, by my side.

5) The distance separates us but all my thoughts go to you my love on this Christmas day.
I would have given a lot to spend this beautiful holiday with you! I send you a sweet and tender virtual kiss.

6) Merry Christmas [First name]!
Even though it’s just a text message and I can’t give you a hug, I wanted to tell you that I love you more than anything else in the world.

7) Hi [First name]. I miss you, I wish I could be with you tonight. But I tell myself that I will find you soon!
Hugs to your family and best wishes to you and your loved ones!

8) My love, how I would like to live this Christmas with you and share with you these warm moments!
I promise you that next year I will do everything to make sure that we are not separated during this special time.
In the meantime, I hope you are enjoying the reunion with your family and that you are having a great time. Merry Christmas and tender kisses.
Thinking of you and loving you.

9) I send you lots of kisses for this Christmas night.
I wish I could have spent it by your side, to snuggle in your arms.
Next year will be the year!

10) My perfect Christmas gift?
To be able to break the distance as soon as possible, to live with you for eternity and be happy as we are today.

11) I had thought about dressing up as a gift and mailing it to myself for your Christmas.
But I’m not sure I’ll make it in time.
So I’ll just wish you a merry Christmas and give you a hug as soon as possible.

12) I only ask for one thing to have a perfect Christmas: to be by your side and live these moments of joy and happiness in your arms.
With you.
I love you and wish you a merry Christmas.

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Can’t spend Christmas with your sweetheart because of the distance?

I’m thinking of you!

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Christmas Short and Romantic Messages

a woman in a long distance relationship accompanies her Christmas message with a selfie

13) My head is full of Christmas songs, my belly is full of good chocolate and I got wonderful presents.
I only need one thing for a perfect Christmas: You.

14) They say that Christmas is the most magical time of the year…
For me, every day spent with you is a fairy tale!
Merry Christmas my angel!

15) May this Christmas be full of love and happiness my darling, and may there be many more that we spend together!

16) Merry Christmas my love.
It is the end of the year, but not of my love for you.

17) I wish you my angel a merry Christmas full of love.
I send you big kisses of love, I miss you, I think of you strongly.

18) For me the most beautiful gift of Christmas is the happiness to see your smile, the tenderness of your look and the joy to have you as a love in my life.
Tonight I want to remind you how much I love you and how much you mean to me.

19) May the Christmas spirit bring you joy and happiness in your family.

May this Christmas spirit allow you to share all the love you have for each other.

May it also allow you to do good around you.

I wish you a very Merry Christmas surrounded by your loved ones.

20) Merry Christmas [First name]!
If love could be wrapped up, your tree would be covered with my gifts.

21) This Christmas, I wish you as much joy, happiness and love as there are stars in the sky on a summer’s evening and snowballs in your tree.
Take advantage of this magical time to share unforgettable moments with your loved ones.
Happy Christmas!

22) With you, every day is a celebration, every day is a gift so I must say thank you for what you have done with my life!
Merry Christmas my darling!

23) What is the difference between you and Christmas?
None, you are both the most magical things there is.

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The same as short christmas messages for long distance relationship, but longer!

image illustrating the Christmas messages sent by long distance couples

24) [First name], this holiday season I found something special to give you. All my heart!
So that your Christmas will be the most wonderful and the greatest happiness will flood your heart with joy.
These are my wishes for you who have given me so much and I want to see you happy all year long!

25) A gift without love is nothing, a message of wishes without love is also worth nothing, so I write you with the ink of my heart that feeds my feelings the best wishes for Christmas, that this end of year is sweet and wonderful.
I kiss you lovingly.

26) It has been 2021 years since the whole world has wished each other Merry Christmas in every language in the world.
And between us, it has been [number of years].
But if the imagination and the words dry up over the years, my feelings remain the same: I wish you a Merry Christmas from the bottom of my heart!

27) Christmas is joy,
Christmas is love,
Christmas is happiness,
Christmas is good times spent with family,
Christmas is a time of reunion,
Christmas is about sharing good food,
Christmas is the celebration of children,
Christmas is sometimes snow,
Christmas is always an expected and hoped-for moment in which we are happy to participate. Always in a good mood. Always with love to share.
So Merry Christmas!

28) Christmas is a unique day where daily worries give way to happiness, magic, sweetness, surprises and love.
It is the day to share with your loved ones pleasant moments. Enjoy the people you love on this magical day.
As the year comes to an end, I wish the most beautiful things to come true for you. Merry Christmas!

29) Hello my love!
This year for Christmas I decided to give you a special gift.
I give you all my love. And as this gift is special, you will receive it every day.
I love you and wish you a very merry Christmas.
Kisses everywhere

30) In this holiday season when everything ends and everything begins again, I want to renew my love for you!
To wish you a happy new year and to remind you that I love you with a simple text message that reminds you that you are essential in my life!
My most beautiful romantic wishes are for you forever.

31) The church bells are ringing, the snow is covering the roofs and the garlands are illuminating the cities but it’s not enough to fill my heart and my mind with wonder as they are only occupied by the wish to find you and to have you in my arms!
Merry Christmas my Love!

32) My love, I wish you a merry Christmas.
I don’t doubt that you will find a thousand and one nice surprises at the foot of the tree but I hope that this one, which comes from the bottom of my heart, will be able to move you.
May this Christmas bring us closer, despite the distance. May there be dozens of others just as magical to share together
You are the most precious thing I have, you are my best Christmas gift. My wish is to always be happy by your side.
I love you very much, Merry Christmas.

33) My love, in this magical season of Christmas, I have found something special to give you: my heart!
So that your Christmas, my love, may be as wonderful as possible and that the greatest happiness may flood your heart with joy.
These are my wishes for you who have given me so much and whom I wish to see happy. On this Christmas day but also throughout the year!
Merry Christmas, I give you a big kiss.

34) The end of the year celebrations plunge me into a great romanticism.
The beauty of your soul and the tenderness of your looks remind me that you are the most important Christmas gift I can receive.
Merry Christmas my love!
I love you.

35) The end of the year celebrations remind my sensitive heart how much the family spirit and the couple life are essential to my happiness.
You are [the man or woman] I love.
I am [the man or woman] you love.
Our love and respect for each other is the best Christmas gift!
Best wishes to you, whom I love so much!

36) My heart
My baby
Love of my life
With this tender Christmas text message
I want to remind you how much I love you
You are my life, my eternal love
You are my joy, my most beautiful poem.
Merry Christmas Love of my life
You are the solution to all my desires.
Merry Christmas Love of my life
You are my happiness, every day, every night.
Receive my tender Christmas wishes in love.
I love you with respect and pride.
Merry Christmas!

Fun LDR Messages for Christmas

I couldn’t offer you 50 christmas messages long distance relationship without writing a part with a bit more fun messages!
Here are some of them (the last one is my favorite!)

Santa Claus drinking a cocktail on the beach

37) If you see a fat man with a long white beard come into your room tonight to kidnap you, don’t worry…
It’s because I asked Santa to get you as a present.

38) Here are 5 reasons why I think Santa Claus is real:

  • I managed to make a snowman
  • I finished two boxes of chocolates and I don’t even have a small stomach ache
  • I escaped midnight mass
  • It snowed even in my garden
  • I remembered to wish everyone I love a Merry Christmas

39) This Christmas card is full of hugs and virus-free kisses just for you!
I hope you have a very Merry Christmas despite the distance between us, and that we can see each other again soon.

40) Little Santa… for this special day, can you bring many joyful moments, lots of love… and thousands of gifts to the person I love?

41) This year I asked Santa for the most beautiful letter to wish you a wonderful holiday.
But he was too busy with his gift-giving, and a little dizzy, to find the time to answer me.
Next year, I promise, you will have four star wishes.
For this year, I hope you’ll settle for this modest « Merry Christmas » from the person who loves you with all his heart.

42) It is said that a man’s life is composed of four great periods:

  • The first period is when he believes in Santa Claus.
  • The second period is when he no longer believes in Santa Claus.
  • Then comes the time when he is Santa Claus.
  • And finally, the time when he looks like Santa.

No matter what time you are in right now, I wish you a very Merry Christmas.

43) I was looking for an original way to wish you a Merry Christmas this year.
To be able to write you a little more than just « Merry Christmas » or « Have a nice Christmas ».
So I searched and searched and searched for that original message that would allow me to tell you.
And finally I thought that nothing could beat a more classic message.
That’s why I dedicate you the following song.

« It’s a beautiful Christmas night,
The snow spreads its white coat (even if it’s not snowing this year, it’s a nice image for Christmas),
And the eyes raised to the sky,
I think of you,
And wish you a wonderful time with your family.
Merry Christmas to you and your family. »

I promise next year I’ll come up with an original text to wish you a Merry Christmas.
Have a great holiday season and enjoy your family to the fullest!
I love you

44) Laughter, love and happiness are the ingredients for a good Christmas.
I have asked Santa to deliver them to you a little bit in advance at the foot of the tree so that you have a wonderful Christmas.

45) I wish you a Merry Christmas in all languages: Merry Christmas, Joyeux Noël (in French), Feliz Navidad (in Spanish), Buon Natale (in Italian), Feliz Natal (in Portuguese), عيد ميلاد مجيد « Aid Milad Majid » (in Arabic), メリークリスマス « merii kurisumasu » (in Japanese), fröhliche Weihnachten (in German), 圣诞节快乐 « Shèngdàn jié kuàilè » (in Chinese) and God Jul (in Swedish).

Christmas LDR messages to accompany a gift

image illustrating the Christmas messages and poems sent by long distance couples

46) In truth, the one who gives is the one who receives.
To give to another is to give to oneself. Merry Christmas my love!

47) This little note that accompanies the Christmas gift I give you is the witness of the esteem and the respect I have for you.
It is always a great pleasure to give a present to such a nice and important person.
This year we cannot be together on this special day. Let’s fight so that it doesn’t happen next year!
Merry Christmas to you whom I love.

48) Giving money to a loved one is giving them the opportunity to choose the best gift that will make them happy.
Giving money is also a reminder that love and friendship cannot be bought.
They are values filled with generosity.
Merry Christmas!
I love you to bits!

49) With this warm and fairy-like atmosphere conducive to the end of the year celebrations, I felt like writing you these few words to wish you a merry Christmas, my love. You, [the man or woman] who shares my life throughout the year, I wanted to dedicate this Christmas declaration to you to accompany your gift at the foot of the tree.
I love you so much, I wish that this Christmas holiday also celebrates our love, and I renew, on this symbolic date, the vow to remain always at your side.
And I send you a thousand thanks of love and gratitude for the wonderful [man or woman] that you are.
My alter ego, my everything, my love. Merry Christmas.

50) It’s time for the holiday season with all the joy and love that comes with it.
With this Christmas gift I wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas.
May your day be filled with happiness.
I took the time to find a Christmas gift that I think is just right for you.
I hope it will please you. Kisses and especially Merry Christmas!

The essential comes from the heart

50 christmas message long distance relationship. Here you go. 

I think you have enough resources to send a Christmas message that fits your personality. All you have to do is choose the one that catches your eye.

One last piece of advice:

You are not a robot!
Sending a Christmas message without feeling is the equivalent of sending a « Hello, how are you? » to say hello to your boring colleague at the coffee machine.

Put some conviction into it and mean every word you write.

You are totally free to pick and choose phrases that you like and create your own message.
In fact, I encourage you to do so.

Your partner will have a hard time holding back the tears of happiness that will escape from his eyes.

This article is coming to an end!
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